When you're writing a personal profile for a dating website, you want to make sure that you look and sound as desirable as possible, right?But there's a fine line between selling yourself well and telling outright fibs – and new research has shown exactly what men and women lie about when they're trying to attract a partner.
According to dating site okcupid.com, men are most likely to lie about their height, while women tend to lie about their weight and build.
It seems that many men like to add a couple of inches to their actual height, with many aiming to be six feet tall - and they are also likely to be 20 per cent poorer than they claim they are.
Women tend to lie about their height too, perhaps because those who are six feet or taller are perceived to be less attractive to men or more intimidating. As a result, a five-foot four inches woman gets 60 more contacts each year than her six-foot counterpart.
And if you spot someone with a very attractive profile picture then beware. Research showed that the more attractive the picture, the more likely it is to be out-of-date.
Research showed that over a third of the hottest photos on the okcupid.com site were a year old or more, and more than twice as many hot photos are over three years old as average-looking ones.
A spokesperson for the site said: 'If you see a good-looking picture of a man over 30, that photo is very likely to be out-of-date.'
Hmmm, maybe we should stick to men under 30, then, eh?
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Wednesday 11 August
By Colin
When I used a dating site some 6 years ago I decided that I would tell the true on the basis that you have to remember lies. When you have six or so women on the go its much easier and besides you will get found out in the end. The worst problem I found (I was just 60) was that the women published photographs which were 10 years old, took 5 years off their age and described themselves as vibrant, etc when in fact they were couch potatoes who wanted to watch soaps all evening. The biggest turn-off was those who said they were after man to free-be on, - take them to expensive restaurants, theatre etc. I had women from Moscow, Lithuania, Poland and Mexico contact me, so I knew what their motives might be. So I tried to target so rich American women, - but to no avail.
I did meet an honest woman, whose profile showed a lot of empathy in our enjoyments, hobbies etc. She even told me about her allergies before we met and we discovered that hers and mine are congruous, so we now buy a sandwich, I eat the bread and she eats the filling! We have been sailing in various parts of the world together, go dancing every week and have fantastic relationship. All thanks to digital dating.
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Wednesday 11 August
By kittykat
You went through all that to find a sandwich to share with someone !!!! lol !!!
Wednesday 11 August
By lilly
Anyone who needs to use online dateing should be avoided anyway.
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Wednesday 11 August
By sam
I agree, they would be better off taking a dog for a walk, getting some fresh air and meeting other dog walkers !!!!
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Wednesday 11 August
By lesley
Thats so true, there are lots of clubs, classes etc that people can join and meet new friends etc.
Online dateing is a real no no !!
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Wednesday 11 August
By rich
online dating is for sad people with no confidence and a lack of self esteem. You wont find anyone worthwhile this way. Better to get out in the real world,lots of ways to meet new people etc.
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Wednesday 11 August
By Christine
I have been on numerous dating sites and i find not one of them are any different, men tell some porkys and can try and make you believe their sad life style, some say they are married but not happy, so why do they stop, some want a relationship for sex and money, i get asked out a lot but no way, because they are not genuine enough and trust is a vital part...my pictures are up to date, because i do not see no point in fooling anyone, and you do get found out in the end, but it goes both ways and if you want someone in your life, it is not very often you can find what you are looking for...i would never pay to go on a site because they are not worth it, why should i pay good money to listen to sex chat.
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Wednesday 11 August
By lotty
Yor experience of dating online just prooves one thing. Avoid it !!
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